Be like the bamboo: the higher you grow, the deeper you bow.
– Chinese proverb
The first of the deadly sins is pride. I personally don’t believe that pride is a problem, but rather false pride the problem. False pride comes in two forms:
- Positive false pride – thinking that you are better than everyone
- Negative false pride – thinking that you are worse than everyone
Neither of these propositions are true. False pride is like looking at yourself in a fun house mirror. Your image bends and warps into larger and smaller versions of themselves. What you need is a clear vision of yourself. How can you be right sized? Rely on your Higher Power, the God of your understanding. Pray this simple prayer so that you can have a clear view of yourself.
Lord, may I see myself as You see me.
Pray this simple prayer often, and you will become more humble. Try it on for size, and see if it works for you too.